So 15 years ago I had a boyfriend. One that, after three years together, I thought I was going to marry.
But through a lot of agony and heart pain and yuck, I ended up not marrying.
But it definitely left me wounded.
But his family meant the world to me and really imparted some amazing stuff into my life.
And the patriarch died over the weekend and the funeral is on Saturday.
Here’s my dilemma…
Will my presence cause any wierdness for his wife or the family or would it be good to go and show my love and support?
Should I stay away and send a card?
Should it not even be an issue, I mean, it's been 15 YEARS!
Will it stress out my own husband? (Of course I’ll talk to him about it and he would go with me.)
I know it’s been a long time but it’s still an awkward thing for ME to see him but I could totally put it aside if it was the right thing to show up.
What do I do????